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Feb
Have you ever taken a look at your house, or in my case, your car, and noticed a lot of stuff? Clutter? Or, if you’re like me, is your calendar super packed with activities and responsibilities with little room to breath? I know that sometimes my life feels so full and it is easy to get swept up and feel a little bit out of control.
A few weeks back, I posted about how I try to keep our house tidy by making sure everything has a home. And then, my friend Jill shared about how she keeps her life in order with a home management binder. An idea I still have’t put into practice, all in good time though, right?
But today, I want to share about simple living.

Living simply is something that is so counter intuitive to our society. We’re all quite busy and we’re all focused on meeting daily needs, wants and desires. Advertisers vie for our attention non-stop, and various health professionals or organizations compete for the “right” solution to xyz problem, ultimately leading to more confusion. It’s difficult to navigate life when it is so complex.
However, I do think it’s possible to simplify our lives. It’s incredibly counter-cultural though, and people may look at you funny – it’s happened to me! – but it is totally worth it.
I’m not talking about selling everything and couch surfing, but about basic choices that will encourage a more simplified way of living – a way that allows more time for relationships that are important to you, decreases wasteful habits, and brings life instead of stress. Don’t get me wrong though, you’ll encounter resistance, and that might feel stressful at first. Change is never easy. But give it a shot and see how things change. You might be surprised!
Here’s a few particular suggestions to get you thinking about simplifying:
- If you’re relocating or moving, consider living closer to where you will work. You will gain valuable time together as a family just by reducing your commute. For some, this is a BIG sacrifice and fairly challenging – I know I was conditioned to like the idea of the suburban dream. However, living in a city or in a small town is quite lovely also

- Simplify your media intake. If you want to be drastic, cut out TV. This may sound appalling to most people, and when I share with folks that we don’t even own a TV, they’re pretty surprised. It will force you to be creative, spend time with people, and try new things. For children, their imagination will be encouraged and relational skills developed in positive ways (after they get over the lack of sponge bob…) If that’s too extreme for your taste, try reducing gradually – maybe just one show a day or week. If you go the route of completely cutting it out, you’ll also save money! Huzzah!
- Don’t always buy new. Craigslist, yard sales, and Good Will are helpful tools to find exactly what you need. Consignment stores are also great for clothing. Or, get crafty and make it yourself! I’m so glad my mom taught me how to sew, and I’m convinced that if you know how to drive a car, you can learn how to sew

- Share stuff. I’m not sure why it’s necessary for every person to own a lawn mower or ladder. Sure, it’s convenient, but consider all the time it is stored and unused? You could go in together with a neighbor or two and share yard supplies and cut down on cost, and maybe open up some free space in your garage. You could even trade off taking care of each others yard.
- Get rid of anything you haven’t used in the last 12 months. This is tough for me – I always see potential in things. But the truth is, if I haven’t used that item, read that book, or done that project yet, I probably never will. Make it a habit to go through your closet at the end of each season and pull out items that don’t fit or you no longer wear – have a yard sale or donate them to the charity of your choice. Give old toys to new families, and sell books on Amazon (I’ve made a bunch of $$ this way in the past month!) Getting rid of stuff that is crowding our lives can help us simplify A LOT!
That’s just a few ideas to get you started. I’m sure there are TONS more I could think of. Or maybe you have your own. Please share!
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